quote:Originally posted by Zombie STU: Here's a question for y'all:
If you could go through life having either true friendships, or true love, but not both... which you would choose?
True love, because that also involves true friendship.
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quote:Originally posted by RTVU2: EDE, I LOVE the Moody Blues!
Oh, yeah? They were my first concert, ever.
Justin Hayward has got to be near the top of my favorite singers, and few can match him in the raw beauty of his songs.
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Do any of our threads have a dress code? You'd figure with all the shirtless (and pantsless in some cases) guys and scantily clad ladies running around that it's pretty much a big "come as you are" party!
Or at least a "come as you wish you were" party!
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True friendships, definitely. True love may exist, but I think it's largely an invention of romantic novels and Hollywood. Besides, that mental, emotionally-hyped craziness of falling in love passes and you better hope you manage to be true friends in the end.
On the other hand, I'd like to believe that true love - and love at first sight - happens for some people, and endures, and that it's from these cases that the novels and movies emerged.
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quote:Originally posted by Member Wolf: I come on too sexy at first (because I think all men are ruled by their penises) but I'm also more talk than walk.
If you're behaving certain ways because you believe "men are ruled by their penises", then you really are setting yourself up for failure.
For one thing, you shouldn't make such broad generalizations about the behavior or motivations of guys. There a lot of different types of guys out there. Personally, I find few things less attractive than a woman who comes on too strong, whether she's willing to follow through with it or not.
Furthermore, being a tease or flirt will usually only get you in trouble. If you create expectations in guys that you have no intention of fulfilling, then you're only going to irritate them. And if you're the sort that flirts with everyone (which you appear to be, at least online), that's going to foster jealousies and resentments among the people you flirt with.
Know who you are and what you want, and be straightforward about it. If you have confidence in yourself, that'll hold the attention of worthwhile guys far longer than any amount of superficial flirting.
Or at least, that's what I think, for what it's worth.
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